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Front Page · Family Desk

Group Chat Still Named Mum's 70th 🎉, Repurposed For Estate Split

Forty-eight hours after the funeral, the party-planning group is already splitting the assets, one pinned spreadsheet at a time.

By a Correspondent Whose Own Family Chat Is Still Named After A Wedding · Filed Under: Death, Admin, Group Chats

The chat's header photo: Mum blowing out seventy candles. Pinned beneath it now: a spreadsheet, sorted by value.

The family group chat is still called Mum's 70th 🎉. It was made in May, for the party. Forty-eight hours after the funeral, it is being used for something else: splitting up everything she owned.

Whoever helps me move gets it," she wrote in 2019. Nobody helped her move. He forwarded it anyway.

The party gifs are gone, and so is the countdown sticker. In their place sits a pinned message, an itemised list of everything she owned, sorted by value. Three siblings are already arguing about the sort order.

The good sideboard went to the eldest. He settled it by quoting her: a message from 2019 that read "whoever helps me move gets it." Nobody had actually helped her move, a fact he raised himself, twice, before anyone else could. Nobody argued with a dead woman's texts.

Her stairlift is on the list too, condition marked "gently used." So is the commode chair, delivered nine days before she died. The youngest emptied her urine from it every morning for those nine days. He then invoiced the estate forty euros a day for "nursing care," backdated to the delivery date. The listing still calls the chair "as new."

None of it is on the spreadsheet. His invoice isn't either, not yet. He is still deciding whether to bill the estate or bill his sister directly. She flew in for the funeral and left before the toasts.

Someone still types into the group chat out of habit, then stops before sending. It isn't grief. Whoever asks a question in there ends up doing the admin, and nobody wants to go first.

The solicitor's office has since added everyone to something called the Estate Admin Portal. It has tasks, and a bar that fills in as they are finished. The sideboard was settled in the group chat months ago; in the Portal, it still shows zero, marked Unresolved.

Every Monday the Portal sends a cheerful reminder about it: "Just checking in on Sideboard!" No one has replied, and no one needs to.

This newspaper's obituary desk uses the same kind of software to route its corrections. One ticket sat unresolved for weeks before anyone noticed the deceased was, in fact, still alive. We marked it complete regardless.

Tomorrow’s Forecast

Grey With A Chance Of Unresolved Tasks, Clearing By Nobody

Pressure builds midweek as unread admin emails pile up. Expect a sharp rise in "I'll deal with it this weekend" by Thursday evening.

Skies stay grey through Sunday, when someone finally reopens the group chat, reads the last unanswered message, and closes the phone again without typing a reply.

Outlook: Mostly avoidance, with unresolved tasks continuing indefinitely.

Classifieds

  • FOR SALE: One (1) deep freezer, still half full of meals cooked in advance for a future that did not happen. Collection only.
  • WANTED: A sibling willing to actually reply to the group chat. Compensation: none. Glory: also none.
  • SERVICES: Professional apology writing, for group chats, funerals, and invoices sent to siblings. Same-day delivery.
  • LOST: All goodwill in a family group chat, last seen somewhere around a spreadsheet formula. Do not reply-all.

Corrections

  • An earlier edition described the family as "coping." They are not coping. They are updating a spreadsheet, which several of them insist is the same thing.
  • We reported that the sideboard dispute had been "resolved." It has not been resolved. It has been won, which the losing sibling has been assured is different.

Letters to the Editor

"Your paper reported the commode chair was listed 'as new.' I helped empty it too, more than once, and never sent an invoice for it. I would like it on record that I am the bigger person, and also broke, because of that decision."

— Also Not In The Listing, 39

"You printed that whoever asks a question in the group chat ends up doing the admin. I have known this since Easter. I have built my whole personality around not being the one who asks first."

— Waiting For Someone Else To Go First